Why It’s Important to Be Honest in Relationships

When being truthful feels risky, it forces us to confront a deeper question about whether honesty builds bonds or breaks them.
Why It’s Important to Be Honest in Relationships
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“Do you think I should start losing weight, sweetie?” The question sounds simple—maybe even casual—but in the context of a relationship, it can feel like a landmine. One wrong word and you are navigating hurt feelings, defensiveness, or conflict.

But isn’t honesty supposed to be the foundation of a strong relationship? When being truthful feels risky, it forces us to examine a deeper question: Does honesty build bonds—or break them?

The Case for Honesty

A study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science examined how honesty influences romantic relationships, particularly during challenging conversations about personal change.