Living in Their Reality: Lessons From 5 Years of Caring for Loved Ones With Dementia

One woman shares personal insights on avoiding mistakes, navigating legal hurdles, and staying calm through the chaos.
Living in Their Reality: Lessons From 5 Years of Caring for Loved Ones With Dementia
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Debra Westbrook never imagined she’d be accused by the police of stealing her mother’s pets. But that’s exactly what happened one evening when the sheriff showed up after her mother, who lived next door, reported the “theft.”

In that moment, Westbrook realized that dementia was rewriting her mother’s reality—one hallucination at a time. Her mom thought Westbrook had snuck in and out of her bedroom window and left with a cat under her arm.

Cara Michelle Miller
Cara Michelle Miller
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Cara Michelle Miller is a freelance writer and holistic health educator. She taught at the Pacific College of Health and Science in NYC for 12 years and led communication seminars for engineering students at The Cooper Union. She now writes articles with a focus on integrative care and holistic modalities.