All of life is one big tradeoff—or that’s the way it feels sometimes. When we choose to focus our energy and resources on one thing, it’s usually at the expense of another good thing.
Some trade-offs that I’ve been wrestling with recently are the following:
- Ambition versus contentment—The bigger my goals, the more excitement I feel about the future but the harder it is to enjoy the present moment.
- Productivity versus curiosity—I can have laser focus to get the job done or allow myself to explore, play, and imagine new possibilities.
- Saving versus spending—I can enjoy some things now or save my money and have more options down the road.
- Strict versus lenient—As a parent, I can be consistent and strong in my discipline or more relaxed and focused on giving freedom and grace.
- Planned versus spontaneous—I can plan my days, weeks, and years or embrace serendipity and learn to enjoy the journey as it unfolds.
- Relationships versus tasks—I can spend a little more time with people or a little more time getting things done.
- Variety versus focus—I can say yes to exciting new opportunities that could change everything or just focus on what’s already on my plate.
- Time versus money—I can spend money to save time or spend time to make more money.
