Out and About: Manners in Public

Out and About: Manners in Public
You never know when a simple act of kindness will change their day for the better. Fei Meng
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It’s easier for most of us to mind our manners when among friends, family, and co-workers, but what about when we’re out in public, surrounded by strangers? The fact that you will never again encounter most of the people you pass is no excuse to be rude, or even cold and indifferent—plus, you never know when your newest best friend will be the stranger you shared an elevator with last week.

Acknowledge and Smile

We have many opportunities to interact with the people around us. Whether it’s while at the mall, in line at the grocery store, or entering or leaving an office building, most people tend to pull into themselves, studiously avoiding acknowledging strangers. As a result, it’s easy to feel isolated, even in a throng of people.
Rather than hoping everyone else changes their attitude, try an experiment. Instead of looking through those you pass as if they aren’t even there, make eye contact and smile. We bet you'll be pleasantly surprised with the response.

Mirror Image

Even those who dress for success every day at the office can be tempted to let grooming and outfit selection choices slide a bit on weekends and days off. This calls for the “act like Mom can see you” rule as you prepare to leave home.
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Sandy Lindsey is an award-winning writer who covers home, gardening, DIY projects, pets, and boating. She has two books with McGraw-Hill.
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