The other day I was speaking with a colleague of mine who shared with me that he had just returned from a vacation to his native country of Lebanon. He also mentioned that his wife (also Lebanese) and two daughters stayed behind and would remain there a bit longer to enjoy the summer. He went on to proudly declare that his young children have been going to Lebanon every year since their birth, and they knew their overseas family members well. His story and dedication to keeping his family connected touched me.
My parents immigrated to the United States from Portugal over 50 years ago. In doing so, they left behind their parents, many siblings, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Although this story is quite common to those who call the United States and Canada their home, the difference with my parents is that they did not often take my siblings and me to their homeland. As a result, this has left me feeling a bit sad that my immediate family members on both sides are virtually strangers to me.
My parents are actually spending this summer back in their homeland. Unfortunately, I have not been able to join them due to my work schedule (which is something that I already regret). The last time I saw those family members was almost 30 years ago. If there is an opportunity to join them next year I am going to make it a goal to do so. As we all say, time is ticking and none of us are getting any younger.
In writing this column, I wanted to remind us all how important it is to maintain contact with our immediate and extended family no matter where they are in the world. In particular, it’s critical to involve the younger generations in that correspondence so a bond can be created. Although technology has made this long distance contact easier, the discipline to take the time and reach out is still a challenge.
I hope all of you join me in taking this opportunity to reconnect with your family in whatever way is possible and right for you. Whether it is beginning a search for your ancestors if you don’t know them, visiting the land of your family’s heritage, or sending an e-mail, writing a letter, or taking a trip to visit long lost loved ones. Do it! You will be glad you did.
As always, I wish you all the happiest of travels.
