This might be considered a good thing—a broader definition of beauty is more inclusive. More accepted body types, more body satisfaction, right?
From the perspective of former athletes, it’s a little more complicated than that.
Athletes are a useful population to explore in terms of the relationship between “athletic” and “feminine” ideals—they are exposed to both more than most women.
Some former athletes embraced a new, less muscular body that emerged due to the retirement-induced reduction in training load.
Lost most of the heavier muscle I gained while training in college about six months after I stopped swimming. Due to the loss, I dropped about 15–20 pounds ... I was surprised at how baggy my clothes felt and was pleasantly surprised that I could fit in smaller sizes. I didn’t feel as bulky or broad-shouldered.With bulk and brawn confined to her former life, Chelsea rejoices in her increased sense of femininity. This suggests traditional conventions of feminine beauty remain the preference even for former athletes who often take pride in their physical strength and muscularity.
Another finding was that the athletic ideal may be the alternative ideal, but it’s not necessarily a healthier ideal or one that will lead to a more positive body image.
It took me a long time to realize that my body would never be what it was when I was an athlete ... I still think back and use that image as a gauge to how I could look, but also know that my life does not revolve around working out 20-plus hours a week or needing to be in top shape to be successful. I still want to be as lean and as strong as I used to be.Although Abbey remains committed to an athletic ideal, she is unable to fulfill it now that she is no longer an athlete. Accepting this is a difficult process and she still pines for her former body.
Ideals, by definition, aren’t healthy because they demand the unachievable: perfection.
My weight is pretty much the same as when I was swimming, but I am significantly less muscular. I’m glad I am not as muscular as I was when I was swimming and that my shoulders shrunk to a size that would fit into clothes, but I would like to be a little more muscular/toned than I am now.And 25-year-old Carrie, a retired gymnast, echoed the “toned but not too toned” mantra:
I am less muscular and my butt has gotten a little saggy. I feel OK because I am still thin and feel energetic, but I would like to be more toned but not as bulky (muscular) as I was when I was competing in my sport.Carrie and Simone desired athletic tone but not at the expense of conventional femininity. At the same time, they sought the thin ideal but not at the expense of an athletic look.
It is naïve to view the athletic ideal as simply providing women with a different or new way to love their bodies; it might also provide a new way to hate them. The more ideals there are, the more ways there are to fall short.