How to Talk About Dying: A Doctors Primer

How to Talk About Dying: A Doctors Primer
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Lynn Black’s mother-in-law, who had lupus and lung cancer, was rushed to a hospital intensive care unit last summer with shortness of breath. As she lay in bed, intubated and unresponsive, a parade of doctors told the family “all good news.”

A cardiologist reported the patient’s heart was fine. An oncologist announced that the substance infiltrating her lungs was not cancer. An infectious-disease doctor assured the family, “We’ve got her on the right antibiotic.”