With all the craziness going on in the news, all the reasons we should avoid each other, not touch anything, not trust anything, not trust each other, I decided to take a walk in the park.
Why not?
It was a beautiful day and mother nature herself seemed to be conspiring to encourage me back into her embrace. I headed to Central Park, not expecting to find anything particularly surprising, maybe just some fresh air and the normal healing that comes from being in nature. But I was wrong. Wow, was I wrong.
When life feels uncertain, in times of instability, we return to what is most basic—the simple pleasures: conversation, walking, nature, making music, being together. When we are stripped of the ability and opportunity to acquire, avoid, distract, and entertain ourselves in the usual ways, we come back to what is most precious; we come back to each other and to nature.
This time of uncertainty will pass. The time will come when we will again feel protected and sheltered by our external system—when the predictability of our world will again lull us into a sense of safety and immortality. While this health crisis may be temporary, and also extremely challenging, let us not get caught up in just the fearful thoughts and thus lose sight of the profound opportunity that a time like this offers. It is in times like these, which don’t come often, times when we can no longer rely on our system to ground us, that we have the opportunity to go within, to rethink and reclaim what really matters to us, to reacquaint ourselves with our deepest values.
Now is a time to keep company with our friends, family, and faith, to convene with nature, be of service, walk, listen to and make music, listen too to silence, and find love where it lives. This is also a time to cultivate the steady place within ourselves, the place that’s here with or without a system.
Now, when the guard rails have temporarily come off our lives—and the structure that provides safety and a sense of who we are is momentarily dismantled—this is a time to ground ourselves in the present moment, find the steady place inside, and remember what really matters, what cannot be taken away.
Ultimately, this is the moment to remember who we are—no matter what.
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