The Pillars of a Strong Relationship

Many of the 10 keys to a satisfying, lasting bond are probably already present in your relationship

Our tendency to take the good for granted and focus on the bad takes a particular toll on our relationships. Take a moment to take stock of what's good.Rawpixel.com/Shutterstock

Your performance evaluation at work comes in, and it’s glowing. However, there’s one area that “needs improvement.” Days later, which part do you think about?

The negative, of course. Part of you knows it’s ridiculous to let that one thing bother you. After all, there’s a lot more good in there than bad, but you can’t seem to help it.