Parenting Your Aging Parents When They Don’t Want Help

Parenting Your Aging Parents When They Don’t Want Help
Jane Wolf Frances (center) with her parents, Jack and Lillian Wolf, in 1963 Courtesy of Jane Wolf Frances
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David Solie’s 89-year-old mother, Carol, was unyielding. “No, I will not move,” she told her son every time he suggested that she leave her home and relocate to a senior living residence.

Although Carol suffered from coronary artery disease, severe osteoporosis, spinal compression fractures, and unsteady balance, she didn’t want assistance. When Solie brought in aides to help after a bad fall and subsequent surgery, his mother fired them in a matter of days.

Judith Graham
Judith Graham
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Judith Graham is a contributing columnist for Kaiser Health News, which originally published this article. KHN’s coverage of these topics is supported by The John A. Hartford Foundation, Gordon and Betty Moore Foundation, and The SCAN Foundation.
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