Overusing Social Media as an Adolescent May Hurt Your Love Life Later

Overusing Social Media as an Adolescent May Hurt Your Love Life Later
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Social media allows adolescents to stay in constant contact with peers, but may keep young people, particularly boys, from developing key interpersonal skills they need to successfully manage some aspects of their relationships for the rest of their lives.

A new study by researchers at the University North Carolina at Chapel Hill and N.C. State University finds that when it comes to romance, the more adolescents communicate online with their boyfriends and girlfriends, the worse they manage conflict and asserting themselves in romantic relationships at a time when kids are developing complex interpersonal skills.

“With electronic communications, there are fewer interpersonal cues,” said Jacqueline Nesi, the lead author of the study and a doctoral student in clinical psychology in UNC’s College of Arts and Sciences. “You’re not seeing facial expressions or using nonverbal communications. So, the predominant use of social media may limit the opportunity to practice in-person conversations that are crucial for adolescents, particularly boys, to develop important skills.”

It looks like the more adolescents are using these electronic forms of communication, the worse they're doing in some of these traditional skills.
Mitch Prinstein, director of clinical psychology, University North Carolina at Chapel Hill