Why Being Ghosted Hurts More Than Rejection and Is Harder to Move on From

Social rejection activates many of the same neural pathways as physical pain.
Why Being Ghosted Hurts More Than Rejection and Is Harder to Move on From
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The last message sat there, delivered and read. Days passed, then weeks. For Justine Ramos, it wasn’t heartbreak exactly. It was the specific, disorienting pain of a connection with a best friend that simply stopped, with no explanation and no ending.

“It was one of the most confusing and hurtful things I’ve experienced,” Ramos told The Epoch Times. “I kept thinking I must’ve done something wrong. I replayed every conversation in my head, trying to figure out where things shifted. It messes with you more than you’d expect because you’re not just grieving the person, you’re grieving the version of the relationship you thought you had.”

Fjolla Arifi
Fjolla Arifi
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Fjolla Arifi is a New York-based reporter covering mental health, culture, and social issues. She has written as a life fellow for the HuffPost and health fellow for BuzzFeed News. Recently, her work has appeared in National Geographic, GoodRx, NOCD, and PopSugar. Arifi is passionate about translating complex medical topics into clear, useful information for readers.