We Keep Using Phones at Dinner Because of a Classic Human Bias: Study 

New research reveals the decision-making process behind texting while socializing. 
We Keep Using Phones at Dinner Because of a Classic Human Bias: Study 
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You’re deep in conversation with a friend, bonding over life’s ups and downs, when suddenly his phone chimes and his gaze drifts down. He assures you that he’s still listening as he taps out a quick reply, but the spell is broken. Your connection is weakened; you feel hurt that he can’t resist the siren call of his screen.

You were snubbed for a phone—phubbed. This common behavior chips away at relationships and well-being, yet we still do it. Why?

Robert Backer
Robert Backer
Ph.D.
Robert Backer, Ph.D., is a psychologist, neuroscientist, academic researcher, and consultant. His work has spanned multiple institutions, including the University of Pennsylvania, University of Delaware, Columbia, Yale, NYU, and the NIH. His background encompasses clinical psychology and health care, as well as social, cognitive, and organizational psychology. He also enjoys classical Eastern and Western art, meditation, and exploring human potential.
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