How to Master the Art of First Impressions, According to an Etiquette Expert

5 tips for making a great first impression, according to etiquette expert Bethany Friske.

Putting in a little extra effort will help you stand out from the crowd. Biba Kayewich for American Essence

Have you ever walked away from meeting someone for the first time feeling refreshed and invigorated? If so, you know the power of a good first impression.

“We have only a few seconds to make a first impression,” said etiquette instructor Bethany Friske. How you use those moments will determine whether that impression is positive or negative. Friske shared her expert tips for adding that extra sparkle to your interactions, making you the most positively memorable person in the room.

Remember, ‘Clothes Make the Man’

Friske recalled immediately wanting to become friends with a woman she saw across a room of 400 people. She cited the woman’s modest and polished attire—as well as the joyful expression on her face—as the reason. Wearing well-pressed, clean, and appropriate attire (e.g., no jeans at funerals or weddings) can give us similar appeal.

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