“Communication is the mortar that holds a relationship together,” according to relationship expert Amy Bellows. Just like a building without mortar, a marriage without communication slowly crumbles. Communication keeps spouses in sync with one another, united in their priorities, goals, and values, and, simply, more connected in heart and mind.
Some types of conversations take priority over others, however. The deeper the conversation, the deeper the connection. And some topics—while they may not be deep in themselves—are still essential for the smooth running of the family life and can give opportunities for strengthening the marriage bond. Many misunderstandings and even wounds arise in a marriage from failure to communicate. As these misunderstandings compound over time and communication continues to languish, they can wear away at the marriage and slowly form a barrier between spouses until they end up living parallel yet separate lives.
