For some of us, the new year rings in resolutions: Drop 30 pounds by year’s end, hit the gym four evenings per week, or spend less money. All of these are noble and worthy causes, to be sure, but also a trifle grim, like the bread-and-water diet of a desert anchorite.
Many Americans are already down in the mouth; recent polls show that a majority are unhappy with the direction our country is headed. To counteract that dark mood, we should take deliberate aim at bringing a spark of joy to ourselves and to the world at large this year. To that end, we put our heads together and came up with some ideas for lighting a few wicks on the candelabra of 2023.
Bring a Smile to Others
Jeff: Make a deliberate effort to bring a smile or laughter to another person every day—a family member, a friend, or a stranger. This can involve something simple, such as acting goofy in front of a grumpy grandchild, or something more complicated, such as paying for the groceries for that frazzled mom and three kids behind you in line at the grocery store. By doing so, you'll not only bring others a smile, but you’ll likely find yourself smiling, too.
Keep a Gratitude Journal
Annie: There’s
nothing like gratitude to beat the post-holiday blues, so why not make this the year to start a gratitude journal? A small notebook sits on my bedside table, waiting for me to write a line or two each night before bed about something from the day that I’m grateful for or was blessed by. Such a discipline redirects our attitudes at the end of a bad day and also serves as a fun reminder of the little joys that would easily be forgotten forever.
Pick It Up and Pitch It Out
Jeff: One sure-fire way to make myself feel better is to straighten my work area, a breakfast table that becomes a littered plateau of books, papers, coffee cups, pens, and other random paraphernalia in a single morning. Happiness is also a waste basket and a trash bag, the first for useless papers and print advertisements, the latter for heavy-duty decluttering destined for the thrift store. Junk the junk, and satisfaction follows.
Picture This
Annie: Many photos capture the best moments of our lives, so reviewing them—particularly 10 or more years later—can be an excellent moment of happiness recall, not to mention the laughter these pictures inspire with their clothing, hairstyles, and expressions! Finding photos of those who are still a regular part of your life and sharing them spreads the photo joy to others as well.
Get Outside ... of Yourself
Jeff: Experts say that getting outside improves our mood. So does getting away from the self. Help a neighbor shovel snow from the driveway. Take a meal to a new mom. Volunteer at a school to tutor or read to kindergartners. Donate time to a worthy cause. When we focus on others, our own troubles take a backseat, at least for a while.
