Winning Back a Defiant Toddler

The first step to taming toddler defiance and getting toddlers’ behavior under control is to work on your relationship and your bond with them
Winning Back a Defiant Toddler
Since children of this age don’t typically have the verbal communication skills necessary to communicate effectively, art and dramatic play are important forms of expression. Shutterstock
Michael Courter
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Dear Michael, my beloved 3-year-old is getting more defiant and aggressive. She takes away almost all of the toys her younger brother tries to play with, refuses to do what I ask, and she is even aggressive with me. I love her so much and she can be so sweet sometimes, but I am getting more and more frustrated with her behavior. How can I get my sweet little girl back?

Sincerely,

Michael Courter
Michael Courter
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Michael Courter has a master’s degree in Social Work with distinction from California State University Chico and is certified in Parent Child Interaction Therapy. He has been treating individuals and families since 2006.
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