Why Children Turn Away From Their Parents

If you and your child have a strong bond, it will be difficult for their peers to compete because they aren’t able to offer the same level of closeness.
Why Children Turn Away From Their Parents
Once children value their friends more than their family, they will adopt the culture of the peers. Suzanne Tucker/Shutterstock
Michael Courter
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Being a good parent is hard, and it’s harder now than it has ever been before. Some may say it’s always been a challenge to be a good parent, and that children have not changed much over the years. It’s true children have not changed, but the circumstances of parenting are different, including the increasing role of technology and the breakdown of the family. But there is one other, important culprit—and parents may be inviting that culprit right into their home.
In their tour-de-force parenting book “Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers,” Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté excoriate the role of peer culture in the lives of today’s youth and how it affects our ability to parent our children. 
Michael Courter
Michael Courter
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Michael Courter has a master’s degree in Social Work with distinction from California State University Chico and is certified in Parent Child Interaction Therapy. He has been treating individuals and families since 2006.
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