What Small Children Teach Parents

From repeatedly asking ‘why’ to living fully in the present moment, children are untouched by fatigue or familiarity.
What Small Children Teach Parents
Children often notice small details more easily than adults, drawing their attention to the wonder of our everyday surroundings. Jordan Siemens/Getty Images
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In most instances, parents teach children. But in a few important ones, children sometimes teach their parents. Of course, lessons fly off a child like scattered droplets of dew as he runs through the grass. A child teaches because of what he is, without guile or disguise. His fresh young self, glowing in the spring of life, is itself the lesson. He knows and lives things that his parents have forgotten and need to be reminded of.

A child lives in a world of wonder. For him, everything is new and nothing is stale. His enthusiasm over seeing a large bird or a construction crane can be as infectious as his laugh—if his parents open themselves up to it. For him, the world hasn’t yet lost its shine; nothing is dull or contemptible through familiarity and repetition. His vigorous young soul has the strength to endure repetition (“Let’s read it again, Mom!”) without growing bored. If his parents are receptive, he can teach them that good things are worth repeating.

Walker Larson
Walker Larson
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Before becoming a freelance journalist and culture writer, Walker Larson taught literature and history at a private academy in Wisconsin, where he resides with his wife and daughter. He holds a master’s in English literature and language, and his writing has appeared in The Hemingway Review, Intellectual Takeout, and his Substack, The Hazelnut. He is also the author of two novels, “Hologram” and “Song of Spheres.”