Thanksgiving is a special time when it’s OK to stuff both the turkey and yourself, but there are some rules of proper behavior that must be followed as you and guests sit down to a feast.
Bring a Dish
Just like the original Thanksgiving when the guests arrived with a dish, you should, too. But make sure you ask your host or hostess what to bring; otherwise, everyone may show up with cranberry sauce. By working with your host, you make things easier on him or her; showing up with an unneeded item isn’t helpful, so don’t assume you know what he or she wants.On a related note, unless you’re asked to bring a specific wine, don’t do it. Hard spirits are also on the “don’t bring” list. Desserts tend to be a safe bet, as are innocuous host or hostess gifts such as a scented candle or maybe a toy for their dog, if they have one.