The Days of Love and Service: The Vocation of Caretaking

Millions of Americans know firsthand the joys, responsibilities, and hardships of caregiving.
The Days of Love and Service: The Vocation of Caretaking
In the United States, 53 million people are caretakers. Biba Kayewich
Jeff Minick
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The alarm sounds every morning at 6 o'clock, but as Anne Wagner explained, no one’s off to work or school in this Mocksville, North Carolina, household. Since 2022, Anne has been the primary caretaker for her husband, Ric, who retired in 2019 as the CEO of Piedmont Federal Savings Bank.

“It’s time for the first medication, and then I do early morning exercises with Ric. When you have Parkinson’s, you have to think big and act big, because one of the characteristics of Parkinson’s is that everything is small. Your writing is small, your voice smaller. So we do the big exercises first, moving our arms and shouting out when we do that about four times.”

Jeff Minick
Jeff Minick
Author
Jeff Minick has four children and a growing platoon of grandchildren. For 20 years, he taught history, literature, and Latin to seminars of homeschooling students in Asheville, N.C. He is the author of two novels, “Amanda Bell” and “Dust on Their Wings,” and two works of nonfiction, “Learning as I Go” and “Movies Make the Man.” Today, he lives and writes in Front Royal, Va.