On the Other Side of Grief: ‘It Is Well With My Soul’

A song written in the 1800s by a Chicago attorney continues to help those affected by loss.
On the Other Side of Grief: ‘It Is Well With My Soul’
A detail of "Mother Mourning the Death of Her Child," 1845, by Giuseppe Molteni. Public Domain
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How can one’s faith remain intact after losing everything? And how can one manage to find peace again after tragedy?

During his greatest hardship, attorney and businessman Horatio Spafford searched for answers to these questions. He leaned on his faith for healing and wrote a song that continues to be a vital source of comfort for those grieving today.

Turning Pain Into Purpose

Horatio Gates Spafford (1828–1888) was a distinguished lawyer in Chicago who was also involved with his Presbyterian church. When he wasn’t working, he could be found teaching Sunday school or discussing theology with his fellow worshipers.

In the spring of 1871, Spafford invested in a significant amount of real estate. But months later, in October, the Great Chicago Fire destroyed much of his investment, creating economic hardship for his family. After the disaster, he and his wife, Anna, spent years attempting to rebuild their finances.

Anna Spafford, wearing high-collared ruffled lace with cross pendant, circa 1873. Horatio Gates Spafford, circa 1885. Library of Congress. (Public Domain)
Anna Spafford, wearing high-collared ruffled lace with cross pendant, circa 1873. Horatio Gates Spafford, circa 1885. Library of Congress. Public Domain

Emotionally spent from the fire’s devastation, Spafford eventually suggested vacationing in Europe to his wife and four young daughters, Annie, Maggie, Bessie, and Tanetta. In 1873, Anna and their daughters boarded a ship bound for France, the SS Ville du Havre. Horatio planned to meet them at a later date after taking care of business in the United States.

While crossing the Atlantic Ocean, the SS Ville du Havre sank in the cold November waters when it was hit by another ship, the Scottish Loch Earn. His four daughters didn’t survive the wreckage, but Anna was eventually pulled to safety by a shipmate sailing with the crew of the damaged Loch Earn.

The survivors ultimately sought refuge on a ship headed for Cardiff, Wales, and when Anna arrived, she immediately sent her husband a short telegram describing the loss of life. She began the correspondence by asking him a poignant question.

“Saved alone. What shall I do?”

"Saved alone" telegram from Anna to Horatio Spafford after the shipwreck of the Ville du Havre, 1873. Library of Congress. (Public Domain)
"Saved alone" telegram from Anna to Horatio Spafford after the shipwreck of the Ville du Havre, 1873. Library of Congress. Public Domain
After receiving word from his wife, Horatio boarded the next ship setting sail for Europe. During his own journey, he had a transformative experience—one that helped turn his pain into purpose.

‘Peace Like a River’

A portrait of Horatio Gates Spafford after arriving in Paris, 1873. Library of Congress. (Public Domain)
A portrait of Horatio Gates Spafford after arriving in Paris, 1873. Library of Congress. Public Domain

As Spafford made his way across the Atlantic, the vessel he boarded took the same route his wife and daughters’ ship had. At one point, the ship’s captain pulled him aside and told him they were passing over the location where the SS Ville du Havre had succumbed to its fate mere weeks before.

As Spafford looked out at the water, according to music site The Tabernacle Choir, he was suddenly filled with an overwhelming sense of “comfort and hope.” Though accounts vary, several publications state he was inspired by this healing feeling and wrote down poetic lines as they came to him. Those words would ultimately become part of the famous hymn “It Is Well With My Soul.” “When peace like a river attended my way/ When sorrows like sea billows roll/ Whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say/ It is well, it is well, with my soul.”
Draft manuscript copy of hymn "It Is Well With My Soul" by Horatio Gates Spafford, circa 1873–1878. Library of Congress. (Public Domain)
Draft manuscript copy of hymn "It Is Well With My Soul" by Horatio Gates Spafford, circa 1873–1878. Library of Congress. Public Domain

The Spaffords’ faith was a key source of comfort as they grieved the loss of their daughters.

Hymnology Archive shared a remark Anna later made after coming to terms with such loss. She said they had been “so sustained, so comforted” by their faith, and that “God has sent peace in [their] hearts.”

The Healing Gift of Song

Years after his voyage, in 1876, Mr. Spafford’s friend and composer Ira Sankey and fellow composer Philip Bliss visited his household for a few weeks. During this time, Spafford completed the song’s lyrics and Bliss set his words to melody. Sankey and Bliss first published “It Is Well With My Soul” in their collection “Gospel Hymns No. 2.”

The song once again provided comfort to the Spaffords in 1880 when their 4-year-old son died from scarlet fever.

"Mother Mourning the Death of Her Child," 1845, by Giuseppe Molteni. (Public Domain)
"Mother Mourning the Death of Her Child," 1845, by Giuseppe Molteni. Public Domain

Spafford viewed “It Is Well With My Soul” as a way to honor his children’s memory. Today, those navigating grief are filled with a renewed sense of spirit when they listen to the hymn’s calming lyrics and tranquil melody.

The song has been reprinted and recorded so many times that it has become a universally spiritual work that has consoled countless individuals through waves of grief.

People continue to be inspired by Spafford’s resolve. Amid unthinkable tragedies, this man gave meaning to his suffering and created a healing song for all to receive its peaceful message.

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