Dear Next Generation: What Is Your Most Important Thing?

Dear Next Generation: What Is Your Most Important Thing?
According to Frank Monti, the hardest choice he ever had to make was to decline a promotion, but in hindsight, he knows it was the right one. Biba Kayewich
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What is the most important thing? From the time I entered the engineering profession, my primary goal was to rise into the partnership of a major design firm. My steps forward were in every sense methodical. I sat for both professional examinations as early as I could. I finished both exams early and passed both on the first try in an industry in which most people failed at least once. I became a registered professional engineer at the age of 27.

Every few years, I stepped up the ladder, rising from draftsman to designer to team leader to lead designer supervising multiple people to department head in charge of land development for a firm handling hundreds of millions of dollars of construction annually.