Dear Next Generation: Find a Tough-Minded, Caring Mentor

Dear Next Generation, an advice column from readers to young people. Photo by Shutterstock

If you are fortunate enough to be part of the next generation, take the time to consider your choices. The newest generation has unlimited opportunities for success. You are surrounded by adults who have been part of previous generations and have learned from their past mistakes and exhibit unending energy to succeed. You have parents, grandparents, teachers, and church leaders who have a wealth of knowledge and, most importantly, common sense that can offer real-life lessons. Your initial goal should be to select a mentor. Your mentor or mentors need to be tough-minded, caring individuals whom you respect, preferably not family members. Once you have secured a comfortable relationship with your mentor, the ongoing dialogue will expose his or her wisdom, insight, and judgment. These character qualities will be essential as you pursue your next steps.

Joe Gretka, Michigan