Movie Theater Etiquette: Ssshhh!

Movie Theater Etiquette: Ssshhh!
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Bill Lindsey
10/13/2022
Updated:
10/13/2022
Going to see a movie is always fun, unless the people around you are misbehaving. Make sure you’re not one of them.

Be on Time

Show up on time, settling into your seat at least five minutes before the movie begins. Walking in while the movie is playing is disruptive to those who managed to get to their seats on time. When the movie ends, you can get up once the credits begin to roll, but consider waiting to see if there are short, new movie trailers after the last credit. Even if there are no trailers, the lobby and restrooms will be less crowded when you wait for everyone else to leave before you do.

Hold That Thought

People go to movie theaters in order to escape from the outside world for a little while, and reasonably expect to be able to focus entirely upon and enjoy the movie they’ve selected—and paid—to see. Accordingly, don’t talk during a movie; there is nothing so important that it cannot wait. Don’t text, either! Continual whispering can also be disturbing to those around you. Apply a slight revision of the golden rule: don’t behave in a way that would annoy you.

No Calls, Please

Turn your phone off; the ring of a cellphone during a movie is not only jarring, but also disrespectful to others in the theater. If you are truly expecting an important call, you shouldn’t be sitting in a movie theater! Allow incoming calls to go to voicemail until after the movie. If you insist on taking a call, get up and leave the viewing area immediately, with as little fanfare as possible. Reconsider returning to watch the movie, as doing so may once again disturb the patrons who have better manners than you.

Sit, Stay

The appeal of a movie theater is the ability to sit back, relax, and immerse yourself in the experience. Frequent trips to the snack counter, bathroom, or lobby are rude to those around you. Pick the perfect seat by arriving a bit early and trying out several to determine which one provides the exact, perfect view. If you bring children, explain to them the importance of staying in their seats and quietly enjoying the movie; if they have phones, take them temporarily, returning them after you leave the theater.

Relax, but Not Too Much

Being comfortable with snacks is part of the “going to the movies” experience, but don’t create and then leave behind a pile of trash or spilled food. Similarly, you’re not in the privacy of your home, so don’t put your feet up on the seat in front of you or the seat adjacent to yours. If you are inordinately tall, consider taking a seat at the end of the aisle so as not to block the view of those seated behind you.
Bill Lindsey is an award-winning writer based in South Florida. He covers real estate, automobiles, timepieces, boats, and travel topics.
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