Gabriel Mendez Ramirez, from Oceanside, California, knew he wanted to become a Marine since his childhood. However, his dream was fraught with self-doubt, as he was bullied for his massive weight. Now, after overcoming all the obstacles, the 18-year-old has lost 186 pounds (approx. 84 kg) and has left to start his Marine Corps recruit training.
However, ever since he embarked on the path to achieve his dream, he has faced numerous challenges.
As a freshman in Rancho Buena Vista High School, Ramirez weighed 365 pounds (approx. 166 kg). Friends and classmates would tease him and call him cruel names such as “meatball.”
But Ramirez’s turning point in life came when he first met Staff Sgt. Anna Rodrigues at the end of his sophomore year in high school. Rodrigues spoke to his class about her experience at the Marine Corps and shared stories. Right after the session, she pulled Ramirez aside and asked him about his interests and gave him her card.
“She looked at me, not at my weight,” Ramirez recalled. “She told me ‘It’s all up to you if you want it.’”
After the initial push from Rodrigues, Ramirez was determined to work toward achieving his goal. However, in junior year, Ramirez was overcome with self-doubt and struggled, as people around told him that he wouldn’t be able to do it. Meanwhile, other branches also echoed that he wouldn’t be able to achieve his dream owing to his weight. But then he saw Rodrigues again and visited the Recruiting Sub-Station Oceanside.
“I did my first workout with them and it killed me,” said Ramirez. “I ran a 26-minute mile and a half, I couldn’t do any pull-ups, and I couldn’t even do 20 crunches. But, they always encouraged me, motivated me, and pushed me.”
Determined for a while, he showed up at workouts, but not long after, he discontinued his exercise and stopped coming. The teen realized at that time that it wasn’t only all the extra weight that he had to shed but that he also needed to work on improving his scores for the Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery test.
Describing himself as not being in a “good place” at that time, Ramirez started to regain all the weight he had worked so hard to lose. By this time, he lacked motivation and was reconsidering achieving his dream of becoming a Marine Corp. However, Rodrigues never seemed to give up on him. She texted him regularly and motivated him.
Touched by the constant motivation from Rodrigues, Ramirez, who has grown up with a single mother, picked up from where he left off and worked hard. He also joined his school’s wrestling team. At that time, his coach, a Marine Veteran, also encouraged him and taught him perseverance. However, within a month, his mentor was replaced.
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