Dance and music school recitals create life-long memories. Make sure those memories are all good memories by adhering to a few etiquette rules.
Applaud for Everyone
While you’re there to show your support and pride in your child’s performance, it’s important to show all the kids your appreciation for their hard work and months of practice by applauding (and possibly cheering, if appropriate) for every individual performer as well as every group, even those that don’t include your child. The children will be thrilled to hear the applause and especially those who may not have a large group in the audience.Stash that Flash
Refrain from charging the stage to capture Suzy’s pirouettes or Bobby’s accordion mastery or raising your camera above your head to get the shot. In addition to distracting the performers, this action distracts other members of the audience from enjoying their children in action. Many dance and music schools will arrange for videography and photos of the performance that can be accessed online afterward.Dress and Act Nice
Recitals, including informal affairs, are special events for the performers. It’s important for the audience to make sure that they share in the excitement by dressing up a bit to make it all that much more special. It’s also important to be nice; less-than-complimentary comments are never appropriate, regardless of how badly the performance may have gone and certainly won’t be appreciated by the parents, should they be overheard.Arrive Early, Turn the Phone Off
Showing up on time, or better yet, a bit early, teaches your children to be responsible while also allowing you time to find a seat with an unobstructed view of the stage. Arriving after the performance sends the signal that the event isn’t important to you, which is hurtful to your child and all the other children. Turn the phone off; you can make or take calls afterward.Keep Your Seat
After arriving early to get a good seat, stay there for the entire show. Visit the restroom and make any last-minute calls before you take a seat. Unless you have an aisle seat, getting up means that those around you must get up, too, interrupting their enjoyment, possibly while their children are on stage. If you or those with you brought snacks to eliminate trips to the snack bar, enjoy them as quietly and unobtrusively as possible.
