Alzheimer’s disease, the most common form of dementia, affects so many people yet there aren’t a whole lot of narrative films that focus on it. The only one I recall in recent memory was the excellent 2020 “The Father” starring Anthony Hopkins and Olivia Colman. It’s sort of a shame since it’s such an important topic that touches so many lives.
Troubled Youth
The film begins unusually, with a young con artist named Chris (Tate Dewey) scamming some men out of their money in a seedy New York City bar. When the bouncer sends him on the run, he meets up with two equally troubled youngsters, pals Jerry (Jared Egusa) and Kim (Taylor Cook), who have been busy pulling their own scams.House (Farm) Arrest
Melody’s helper, Joe (Kevin Hardesty), picks Chris up and takes him to Melody’s sprawling farm, one of the biggest in the South. Although the farm used to be one of the largest corn producers in America, the farm has fallen into neglect and Joe barely manages to keep it going.When Chris meets Melody, he seems rather unaffected by her radiant energy and infectious smile. As a millennial, he’s much more interested in finding the Wi-Fi password so that he can get cellphone service. Needless to say, he becomes completely discombobulated when Joe tells him that “there ain’t no internet here.”
Joe attempts to instill some discipline into Chris by setting strict mealtimes, a curfew (he is under house arrest, after all), and showing him the importance of work by having the youth help him around the farm. But nothing seems to move Chris.
A Trio’s Scam
Soon, Chris comes up with a dastardly plan to fool Melody into transferring her power of attorney over to him instead of to Joe. But to pull off his little caper, he’ll need his fellow con artists Jerry and Kim. Will the troublesome trio’s hornswoggle be successful?Right off the bat, I must say that this film is perfectly paced. We get to see a young man and his friends at a crossroads in their lives. Temporarily confined to a decidedly low-tech environment, Chris at first doesn’t see any value in the beautiful natural environment surrounding him, let alone appreciate the folks who genuinely care about him.
In other words, Chris is still holding on to some internal issues that prevent him from being close to others.
This is a film with a script devoid of any fat or fluffery, with just the right number of supporting characters to keep things peppy and insightful. There’s the local town’s spiritual guide, Pastor John (Louis Gossett Jr.), who is on hand to gently drop hints of faith for Chris to ponder. George Chakiris also appears in a few scenes as the local bank manager who oversees Melody’s will and finances. All of the supporting characters have some sort of meaningful input that drives the narrative forward.
Invaluable Life Lessons
The positive messages of the importance of faith and family are there, but they never feel intrusive or preachy; instead, they are food for the mind, heart, and soul, even if one isn’t religious. Both Christians and nonbelievers alike can take away some invaluable and timeless life lessons from this movie.There’s also a big twist (no spoilers) that happens during the onset of the film’s third and final act. Usually, I can see plot twists coming, but this one was quite a surprise and made the film ascend to new emotional heights.
“Not to Forget” is a powerful film that raises awareness about a very important topic while featuring strong performances by its incredible cast of veteran performers (including five Oscar winners) and newcomers alike. Karen Grassle is particularly superb as a kindhearted, elderly woman suffering from Alzheimer’s.
The tale involves some trauma and pain but ultimately has to do with forgiveness, recovering from adversity, and appreciating the finite time you have with your loved ones—particularly family members. After all, we have only one shot to enjoy our time with them while they’re still here, at least physically.