Family Roots: Taking Inspiration from My Grandparents’ Love Story

Family Roots: Taking Inspiration from My Grandparents’ Love Story
Carl with his newborn daughter Laurel (the author’s mother), 1953. Courtesy of Andrew Benson Brown
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War hero, farmer, and family man, my grandfather was among the last of the old breed. The son of Swedish immigrants, his father had his surname, Bengtsson, anglicized when he came through Ellis Island. Thus Carl “Benson” was born in 1923. Growing up in California during the Great Depression, Carl described how he would make “chewing gum” from the tar in pavement cracks as he walked to school barefoot. He worked the family farm where his parents raised cows, grew alfalfa, and made dried fruit from peaches and apricots.

He joined the U.S. Army during World War II, traveling to Italy, France, and Germany. During an attack on the Bavarian town of Bruckenau, Carl and three other men undertook “a daring mission” of reconnaissance, according to Capt. Joseph Carter, author of “The History of the 14th Armored Division.” Moving across open terrain ahead of the main force, avoiding mortar shells, snipers, and bazooka-fire, they reached a group of besieged soldiers and obtained information necessary to seize the town. For his service, Carl received a Bronze Star.

Finding Love

After the war, Carl returned to farming life in California. One morning while browsing through his mother’s issue of “Good Housekeeping,” he noticed an advertisement for a “personal acquaintance service.” He responded and received a questionnaire in the mail. The service’s founder, sociologist Dr. Karl Miles Wallace, was an early pioneer of “scientific matchmaking.” He ran a 10-year study that matched up over 6,000 applicants based on age, social background, and personality. Carl answered questions regarding five traits: temperament, sociability, conformity to social standards, attitude toward sex, and religious orthodoxy. He mailed it off. That summer, he received a letter from a woman in Montana, Edith Harmon.
Andrew Benson Brown
Andrew Benson Brown
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Andrew Benson Brown is a Missouri-based poet, journalist, and writing coach. He is an editor at Bard Owl Publishing and Communications and the author of “Legends of Liberty,” an epic poem about the American Revolution. For more information, visit Apollogist.wordpress.com.
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