Two Husbands, Four Wives: ‘My Favorite Wife’ (1940) and ‘Move Over, Darling’ (1963)

In this installment of ‘Comparing Classic Cinema,' we see how marital arrangements get all mixed up.
Two Husbands, Four Wives: ‘My Favorite Wife’ (1940) and ‘Move Over, Darling’ (1963)
(L–R) Nick Arden (Cary Grant), Ellen Arden (Irene Dunne), and Stephen Burkett (Randolph Scott), in “My Favorite Wife.” (RKO Radio Pictures)
Tiffany Brannan
4/21/2024
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4/21/2024
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What would happen if a man were to lose his wife in a tragic accident and end up remarrying after years of grieving, only to have the first wife to return on his wedding night? This predicament features in two classic movies, “My Favorite Wife” (1940) and “Move Over, Darling” (1963).

“Move Over, Darling,” starring Doris Day and James Garner, is a direct remake of the original, which starred Irene Dunne and Cary Grant. Both films were loosely inspired by Alfred, Lord Tennyson’s 1864 poem, “Enoch Arden”: A sailor returns home after being thought dead for years, only to find that his wife has married another man. In both films, the main couple’s last name is Arden as a nod to the poem. The films take a comedic twist in the story by changing gender roles.

Coming Back

Ellen Arden (Dunne/Day) returns to her Los Angeles home after being rescued from a desert island by sailors. In “My Favorite Wife,” it’s been seven years since she was presumed drowned, and five years in the remake. Little does Ellen know that her lawyer husband, Nick (Grant/Garner), has just had her pronounced legally dead so that he can remarry
Nick Arden (Cary Grant) and Bianca Bates (Gail Patrick), in "My Favorite Wife." (RKO Radio Pictures)
Nick Arden (Cary Grant) and Bianca Bates (Gail Patrick), in "My Favorite Wife." (RKO Radio Pictures)

Ellen goes to their house right away and sees her children playing in the pool. In the original, the children are a boy (Scotty Beckett) and a girl (Mary Lou Harrington); the remake features two girls (Pami Lee and Leslie Farrell).

Ellen traumatizes her mother-in-law (Ann Shoemaker/Thelma Ritter), who can’t believe that she has come back. She reluctantly tells her daughter-in-law that Ellen’s husband has just left on a honeymoon with his new bride. When he checks in, Nick is shocked to learn that his first wife is not dead but is there at the hotel.

Changes Made

From this point onward, the films go in different directions. In the original film, Nick convinces Bianca that they should drive back to his house. In the remake, he fakes a back injury. At her husband’s home, Ellen assumes a false identity. In the original, she pretends to be a loudmouthed Southern friend of the family, who is a little too friendly with Nick. In the remake, she impersonates a Swedish masseuse hired by Nick’s mother to nurse him back to health. Naturally, the bride quickly grows jealous of the other woman.
Nick Arden (James Garner) and Ellen Arden (Doris Day), In "Move Over, Darling." (20th Century Fox)
Nick Arden (James Garner) and Ellen Arden (Doris Day), In "Move Over, Darling." (20th Century Fox)
Nick is displeased to learn that Ellen wasn’t alone on that island. She was shipwrecked with a buffed Stephen Burkett (Randolph Scott/Chuck Connors). They meet briefly, and Burkett doesn’t appear again until the final court scene. In the original, Burkett has a much larger role in the story. It’s clear that he and Ellen had a friendship, whereas she seems to despise him in the remake.

Irene Dunne Done

“Move Over, Darling” is one of the few remakes which acknowledges the existence of its original. This is especially funny because the main characters have the same names in both versions, and much of the dialogue was reused verbatim. In a hilarious scene, Ellen, masquerading as a Swedish masseuse, describes the plot of “My Favorite Wife” while giving Bianca a vigorous massage. She points out the similarity between that movie and Bianca’s new marriage, wondering what would happen if Mr. Arden’s first wife came back “like Irene Dunne done.” When Bianca casually says that Ellen would have to step aside because she is the current Mrs. Arden, the massage gets much more vigorous.
Bianca Steele (Polly Bergen, L) gets a massage from Ellen Arden (Doris Day), in "Move Over, Darling." (20th Century Fox)
Bianca Steele (Polly Bergen, L) gets a massage from Ellen Arden (Doris Day), in "Move Over, Darling." (20th Century Fox)

It’s interesting to see how the characters differ in the hands of each actor. The remake is almost 20 minutes longer, so more time is taken to develop the scenarios. While the original is a bona fide screwball comedy, the remake is more romantic and sentimental. Instead of the zany gags which characterized 1940s comedies, the remake derives most of its laughs from bedroom comedy a la 1963.

By this point, the Production Code Administration (PCA) was only five years away from its replacement with the rating system, and you can see Hollywood’s decaying moral state in many scenes. Although the film’s overall moral tone is wholesome, there are some very suggestive scenarios surrounding the wedding night. Bianca’s longing for her new bridegroom is much more pointed than it would have been in a movie made during the PCA’s Golden Age (1934–1954).

Although some of the bedroom shenanigans with Bianca in the remake are a little embarrassing to watch in mixed company, it is charming. How can you not help but love Doris Day? The romantic story arc was simplified significantly, since Burkett’s role is downplayed. After seeing the original, it’s a little disconcerting when the original husband says he has to think about whether he still wants to be with the wife he thought was dead for seven years, simply because she was stranded on an island with an attractive man.

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Tiffany Brannan is a 22-year-old opera singer, Hollywood historian, vintage fashion enthusiast, and conspiracy film critic, advocating purity, beauty, and tradition on Instagram as @pure_cinema_diva. Her classic film journey started in 2016 when she and her sister started the Pure Entertainment Preservation Society to reform the arts by reinstating the Motion Picture Production Code. She launched Cinballera Entertainment last summer to produce original performances which combine opera, ballet, and old films in historic SoCal venues.
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