My grandmother, Despina Stratoudaki White, epitomized resilience, determination, and grace. Her story of survival, hard work, and an unrelenting pursuit of knowledge has not only shaped my family’s values, but also serves as the foundation for the person and professional I am today. She taught me that success is built on the courage to overcome challenges and the humility to never stop learning—values I carry with me today in my work as a trial lawyer and community leader.
Born on the island of Crete in 1926, my grandmother faced unimaginable hardship early in life. Her father, colonel Theodore Stratoudaki, was a commanding officer in the Greek army. He died fighting Nazis at the Battle of Crete during World War II. As an elementary-school-aged girl, she smuggled her young sister through occupied Crete to their mother in Athens. At a young age, she endured the German occupation, and later, the Greek Civil War. These experiences tested and forged her strength. After moving to Athens with her mother and sister, she found ways to thrive amid chaos. She became a flight attendant for Greece’s national airline in 1948—a pioneering role for women at the time.
It was on a flight from Greece to Australia that she met my grandfather, Darrell S. White, an American pilot. Their connection was instant, and soon, she made the bold decision to leave everything she knew behind to join him in the United States. Arriving on Christmas Day in 1949, she began her life in America not as a passive observer, but as an active participant in building her American dream.
My grandmother dove headfirst into adapting to her new home, driven by an unquenchable thirst for education. She earned both her master’s and doctorate degrees in history from the University of Georgia, a remarkable achievement for an immigrant woman in the mid-20th century. She specialized in ancient Greek history and took great pride in the fact that her homeland, a small part of the world, had played such a significant role in shaping Western civilization. Her passion for history was not just academic; she loved sharing stories about historical figures and global events, making history come alive for those around her.
Her academic career flourished as she taught ancient Greek history at Mercer University and Wesleyan College, leaving a legacy of intellectual curiosity on countless students. Her love for teaching was evident in the way she engaged her students, always encouraging them to question, analyze, and think critically about the past and how it informs the future. She was also a published author, writing a book on Photios I of Constantinople that contributed significantly to the study of Byzantine history and religious scholarship.
Her contributions extended far beyond the classroom. Fluent in five languages and a devoted patron of the arts, she embraced culture and community with fervor. She served as president of the League of Women Voters and was among a fortunate few to attend President John F. Kennedy’s inauguration in 1961—a moment she described with pride as a celebration of democracy and hope.
