Momma’s Tricks of the Trade: Adjusting Your Outlook With Landmarks

Momma’s Tricks of the Trade: Adjusting Your Outlook With Landmarks
Remembering your intentions and goals—through "landmarks" along the parenting journey—offers encouragement. Alena Ozerova/Shutterstock
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For many years, curious drivers on the rural route noticed three symbols on a telephone pole just south of my hometown. They were spray-painted bright white and reflected in the headlights of my dad’s Silverado as I drove home. Back in 1989, the message was a reminder to me and helped shape future events in my life. The message was a landmark made by my best friend.

We usually think of landmarks as prominent identifying features of landscapes, boundary markers, or historical events, but I want to use the word in a more personal way. Anyone can make a landmark as an outward indication of a significant life-altering moment. I am speaking of landmarks as something spontaneous and purposeful.