Basic good manners should be second nature, but they can be inadvertently forgotten, making a brief refresher an excellent idea.
Basic good manners should be second nature, but they can be inadvertently forgotten, making a brief refresher an excellent idea.
Hold the Door
When entering or exiting a building, holding the door for anyone who may be exiting behind you or is about to enter is a simple yet appreciated kindness. This act becomes more appreciated when the other person may be holding packages, or perhaps has a dog on a leash or a small child by the hand. Holding the door acknowledges the other person, and when accompanied by a smile, can brighten their day.Listen More, Speak Less
Some people find it annoying or even rude when they can’t get a word in edgewise, so slow down and let them talk, too. Shy persons can be made to feel more comfortable by allowing them to monopolize the conversation. Try this and watch them blossom; as a happy bonus you just might make a new friend.Be Thankful
Saying please and thank you should not only be reserved for friends and family, but extended to all those with whom we come into contact. By making a point of being courteous to the clerk at the local lawn center, a seldom-encountered coworker, and the associate at the fast-food drive-through you provide a good example that hopefully becomes contagious.Look Them in the Eye
Making eye contact is a sign of a well-mannered person and is also a very effective way to create and maintain a closer bond with others. Whether a chance encounter with a complete stranger at the mall or while conversing with a neighbor, looking them in the eye assures them you are paying attention and interested, creating a good first—and 4,567th—impression.Show Respect
There is no excuse to touch something that doesn’t belong to you, unless you have express permission to do so. This rule applies in the workplace, where a coworker may have an interesting pen or desk knickknack, or in someone’s home. Courteous people do not repeat gossip, no matter how intriguing it may be. When in another’s space, don’t make or leave a mess.
