Letting Go of Cynicism

If you look for the worst in everything, that is what you will find. Choose to look for goodness instead.
Letting Go of Cynicism
When one becomes too cynical, one operates from a negative frame of mind—believing that all motives are probably selfish and that outcomes will most likely be disappointing. HBRH/Shutterstock
Barbara Danza
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For many people, it’s become all too easy to be cynical these days, and no wonder. The news cycle is filled with negativity, and the social media posts that generate the most attention are often those depicting the worst of humanity. While it may feel more prudent to adopt what some call “healthy cynicism,” in the long run, it’s not a good strategy for life. 
Cynicism is a sense of overarching distrust and doubt that, if not kept in check, can color every aspect of life. Constantly expecting the worst in people and situations can lead to feelings of bitterness, resentment, and isolation. If you go through life guarded and distrustful of others and doubtful of positive outcomes, you’re likely to close yourself off from healthy relationships and opportunities for growth. 
Barbara Danza
Barbara Danza
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Barbara Danza is a contributing editor covering family and lifestyle topics. Her articles focus on homeschooling, family travel, entrepreneurship, and personal development. She contributes children’s book reviews to the weekly booklist and is the editor of “Just For Kids,” the newspaper’s print-only page for children. Her website is BarbaraDanza.com
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