Joy Redoubled: Men, Loneliness, and Friendship

Joy Redoubled: Men, Loneliness, and Friendship
Some men who go through a shared experience, such as serving in the military, become lifelong friends. Above, Marines remove a tree from main road at Marine Corps Air Station Beaufort, South Carolina, Oct. 8, 2016. Dengrier Baez/Marine Corps
Jeff Minick
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In the movie “Saving Private Ryan,” a detachment of American soldiers is sent behind German lines to rescue a Private Ryan, whose three brothers have all died that week in combat. After fighting different skirmishes and suffering casualties, these men finally find the missing private and demand he return home with them to rejoin his bereaved mother.

But Ryan refuses. “Tell her that when you found me, I was here,” he says, “and that I was with the only brothers I have left and there was no way I was going to desert them. I think she’ll understand that.”

Jeff Minick
Jeff Minick
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Jeff Minick has four children and a growing platoon of grandchildren. For 20 years, he taught history, literature, and Latin to seminars of homeschooling students in Asheville, N.C. He is the author of two novels, “Amanda Bell” and “Dust on Their Wings,” and two works of nonfiction, “Learning as I Go” and “Movies Make the Man.” Today, he lives and writes in Front Royal, Va.
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