We all learn as we grow, so for the younger readers out there, this is the condensed version of life’s great realizations.
Listen
Listening more than you speak is an interpersonal skill that will pay great dividends for your entire life. Sometimes it may be difficult to not interrupt or to even keep paying attention. Resist the temptation to tune out, which is incredibly rude and only hurts you. None of us are born knowing everything, so we learn as we go. Listening and valuing what’s being said is a huge part of the learning process.Respect Your Elders
Those now older than 21 can remember when they weren’t. Many can also recall how, at that stage of life, they were certain that they were quite possibly the smartest person on the planet—and definitely smarter than those around them. With age comes the realization that this assumption isn’t always correct. Recognize when you’re being mentored by someone who knows what they’re talking about and cares enough about you to share their wisdom.Seek Advice
Recognizing when you need help and knowing how to request it are two related and very valuable skills. Being open and honest when asking for assistance or advice shows respect to the person being approached and shows that you respect their time and help. If you don’t fully understand what they tell you, say so right away. Coming back hours or days later seeking clarification suggests that you didn’t pay full attention or respect their efforts.Be Appreciative
It’s easy to take for granted the loving support and assistance you receive from family. Realizing that this is a gift of valuable time and effort usually occurs when you discover friends who don’t have a similar support system. When you do, take a moment and make it clear to those who are there for you that you value them and are grateful.
