The old saying about not being able to pick family members also applies to neighbors. When moving to a new home or apartment, the neighbors are rarely a consideration at first. The same goes for when new people move into your neighborhood. While they may not all turn out to be great, sometimes they evolve into good friends. There are a few things that can be done to foster community and friendly relations.
Break the Ice
The best way to start is by being friendly. Smiling and a casual wave to passing neighbors can be an effective icebreaker. Kids and dogs tend to find each other and play, creating an opportunity for the grown-ups to introduce themselves to each other. Keep an eye out for things in common, such as having the same breed of dog or owning a boat, RV, motorcycle, or the same brand of vehicle.Other icebreaker topics include compliments about a neighbor’s landscaping or holiday decorations that can stimulate a pleasant conversation and help you get to know each other, even if you become only “wave as you drive past” acquaintances.
