Doctor’s Office Visit Etiquette

Doctor’s Office Visit Etiquette
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Bill Lindsey
9/9/2023
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9/9/2023
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Visits to the doctor’s office for an annual exam or any other reason always go more smoothly when you are a paragon of proper manners.

Time Matters

Arrive on time. Yes, you might be kept waiting, but that’s no excuse to show up late. Your promptness allows the doctor to spend more time with you when he/she is not rushing off to see the next patient. Arrive early for a first visit to allow time to complete forms. If you realize you will be unable to make a scheduled appointment, call the doctor’s office as soon as possible.

Make a List

Perhaps a week or so prior to the date of the exam, begin making a list of any concerns you want to discuss with your doctor while they are poking, probing, and generally looking you over. These can range from suspicious bumps or rashes to recurring pain or discomfort. The goal is to provide your physician with clues that can lead to a speedy resolution of any ailments that might not be obvious during a routine exam.

Quiet, Please!

Upon arrival at the doctor’s office, either turn off or at least mute your phone. It is OK to use it to search the Internet while in the waiting room, or even in an exam room if left alone for a while, but resist the urge to make or take calls. If you must take a call, excuse yourself from the doctor’s office to find a place that provides privacy without disturbing others.

Be Honest

Physicians won’t judge you, so don’t hold back from being open and honest, even if it might be embarrassing. In order to help you achieve and maintain optimum health, they need to be aware of excessive drinking, smoking, overeating, lack of exercise, or any other bad habits or recent injuries. The exam is a rare opportunity to have the complete, undivided attention of your doctor, so make the most of it.

Listen Carefully

Pay close attention to what your physician tells you, making notes if necessary to ensure you follow their directions exactly when new medications or follow-up procedures are prescribed. Unless you graduated from medical school, resist the urge to argue with him/her, or say, “but WebMD said ...” which is never appropriate or respectful, and often is wrong. Follow their instruction and advice; if you truly disagree, consider getting a second opinion.
Bill Lindsey is an award-winning writer based in South Florida. He covers real estate, automobiles, timepieces, boats, and travel topics.
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