We frequently hear the saying “Politics is downstream from culture,” but we should consider as well that culture is downstream from the family. The foundation stone for a healthy culture is the family, both the nuclear family and its extensions: grandparents, cousins, uncles, and aunts. If we wish to see what happens to a culture when these bonds become frayed or broken, we have only to lift our heads and look around us.
The most ardent literary embrace of motherhood occurred during the Victorian period. Many of that era’s poems and stories about family life were certainly more sugary than today’s prose and verse, though whether that difference is good or bad is debatable. Nevertheless, if we glance back at some of those 19th-century poets, we discover a deep appreciation of motherhood.
Wholehearted Love
Regarding unconditional maternal love, Rudyard Kipling wrote these verses in “Mother o’ Mine”:If I were hanged on the highest hill, Mother o‘ mine, O mother o’ mine! I know whose love would follow me still, Mother o‘ mine, O mother o’ mine!
If I were drowned in the deepest sea, Mother o‘ mine, O mother o’ mine! I know whose tears would come down to me, Mother o‘ mine, O mother o’ mine!
If I were damned of body and soul, I know whose prayers would make me whole, Mother o‘ mine, O mother o’ mine!
Years ago, when my mom still lived, I would on occasion recite these lines to her, especially after she had rebuked me. My recitation made her laugh, but we both tacitly acknowledged the truth of these sentiments.The Teaching Mother
Victorian writer Jane Taylor, author of “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star,” and her sister and collaborator Ann gave us “My Mother.” Here are two verses from this sweet tribute to moms:Who ran to help me when I fell, And would some pretty story tell, Or kiss the place to make it well? My Mother.
Who taught my infant lips to pray, And love God’s holy book and day, And walk in wisdom’s pleasant way? My Mother.
Mothers still “kiss the place to make it well,” and still teach their children to “walk in wisdom’s way.”You may have tangible wealth untold; Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold. Richer than I you can never be— I had a Mother who read to me.
Treasures Unappreciated
Our own age regrettably takes a more jaundiced view of motherhood. Some mothers regret the constrictions of having birthed children, some people look askance at large families, and some malicious souls even refer to mothers as “breeders,” an obscenity which if issued in the 19th century might have brought a gentleman’s walking stick crashing down upon the offender’s skull.Thank You, Moms
Years ago, while teaching homeschoolers, I was attempting to inspire a class about their future when a young man asked, “Why do you care about us so much, Mr. Minick? We’re not your children.”I thought a moment and then replied, “No, you’re not my children. But I have grandchildren, and they’re going to have to live in the world with you long after I am gone.”
So thank you, Moms. Thank you for all you do. No matter who you are—stay-at-home moms, working moms, single moms—thank you for trying to raise good kids, virtuous kids, kids who find value in poetry, art, and music, and most especially, kids who will treasure liberty.
Thank you for making the world a better place for my grandchildren.
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