When people hear the word shed, they may think about a rickety wooden building at the bottom of a garden crawling with spiders, filled with old paint tins, a lawnmower and out-of-date weedkiller.
Others may envision a “man cave”—a space where a man spends time on his own, tinkering with junk or avoiding his partner.
Loneliness is a key challenge for contemporary times and while it can be experienced by people of any age, it can impact older people particularly. The number of people over the age of 65 who live in the United Kingdom continues to increase and now 3.6 million older people live alone. Age UK found that for many older people their main source of activity is watching television.
While many older people look forward to retirement and have the resources and social connections to enjoy their leisure time, there are others who face loss of social support, changes to living arrangements, and a decline in physical and emotional well-being. Loneliness can be as a result of retirement (voluntary or forced), becoming unwell, or the death of close friends or a spouse.
Older men are more at risk of loneliness. The impact of feeling isolated or lonely has been compared to obesity and increases the risk of a decline in cognitive abilities. It can also increase reported anxiety and depression.
Meeting Friends and Making Things
Men’s Sheds is a social programme which aims to help provide community spaces for men to boost emotional and physical health. Originating in Australia in 1998, Men’s Sheds is now a global programme with hundreds of projects across the U.K., Canada, Ireland, Denmark, Australia and the United States.
The sheds are usually workshop spaces but can also be in garages, portable cabins or other community buildings. They provide a space for men to make things or do other leisure activities and are about meeting other men with similar interests, sharing skills and knowledge.
We interviewed 20 men who attend Men’s Sheds in Cheshire and spoke with ten of their family members. We also collected survey information about the men’s physical and emotional well-being in July 2017 and six months later. Our research found that going to the sheds has led to new friendships (described by the men as camaraderie) and a sense of belonging.
The men told us they were able to open up about their health concerns and experiences because they felt they belonged to something and had other men to talk to while they worked on projects together. Working in the sheds also helps keep the men active and mobile. They also reported a surge in self-esteem and confidence. One man said the program offered him a chance to do something for others.
“It gives me a good boost knowing that I have helped somebody,” he said.
“Putting a smile on their face, and when they say thank you, that means more than anything in the world.
The men say that their sheds are much more than a place to do woodwork. The shed sessions are about having a laugh and sharing experiences.
“It saved me from an early grave,” said one 72-year-old man. “I was in a right state and this was good for me.”
Men’s Sheds is an example of a community based health and social care intervention that improves men’s physical and emotional well-being by providing a space to meet new people, share stories, and learn new skills. They play a valuable role in enabling men to live happier and healthier lives for longer and should be a part of what Lisa McNally—the Director of Public Health for Bracknell Forest—calls a “well-stocked community.”
Many of the men were referred to the sheds programme by their wives who were either concerned about them or needed some space for themselves. However, some of the men were referred by health and social care professionals in a similar way to social prescribing, where health and care professionals refer people to non-clinical services such as swimming clubs, gardening activities or art groups.
The debate is raging about how to fund quality social care for older adults. Now the new United Kingdom’s Cabinet Minister for Health and Social Care, Matt Hancock, has promised 4.5 million pounds to set up social prescribing schemes as a different way of supporting people who are lonely.
Loneliness is a key challenge for contemporary times, particularly in the context of the increasing number of older men who live alone or feel socially isolated after retirement. Programmes like Men’s Sheds can offer a solution.