While it’s commonplace for older generations to criticize younger generations based on their use of smartphones and technology, a recent study found nearly half of teenagers also believe their parents are often distracted by their phones.
A Shared Digital Dilemma
The study underscores an often overlooked aspect of the digital age: the mutual challenge of screen time management across generations.“Teens aren’t the only ones who can be glued to their phones,” the report states. “Parents, too, can find themselves in an endless cycle of checking emails, text messages and social media.”
Parents were asked to think about their own screen time and whether it got in the way of connecting with their teen children.
About 47 percent of parents said they spent too much time on their smartphone, while 45 percent thought they spent an appropriate amount of time on their smartphones. Another 5 percent of parents think they spend too little time on their phones.
“When it comes to distracted parenting, parents paint a rosier picture than teens,” the survey found.
Parental Oversight Versus Privacy
Another aspect related to parents was balancing the need for oversight with respecting their teenager’s privacy.“It’s common for parents to look through their teen’s phone—and many of their teens know it,” the report noted. “Half of parents of teens say they look through their teen’s phone.”
Approximately 43 percent of teens believed their parents searched their phones.
“Whether parents report looking through their child’s smartphone depends on their kid’s age,” the report found. “While [64 percent] of parents of 13- to 14-year-olds say they look through their teen’s smartphone, this share drops to [41 percent] among parents of 15- to 17- year-olds.”
About half of the parents in the study admitted to checking their child’s phone, a practice that varies with the age of the teen and reflects the complexities of parenting in the digital era.
“Managing screen time can feel like an uphill battle for some parents,” the report noted. “About four-in-ten say it’s hard to manage how much time their teen spends on their phone.”
Researchers found that 26 percent of parents said it was easy to manage their teens’ screen time, while another 26 percent said it was neither easy nor hard.
This oversight is part of a broader concern about the impact of screen time on teenagers, with parents and teens frequently finding themselves at odds over digital consumption.
Navigating Digital Connectivity
The digital age has undeniably brought about significant benefits, from enhanced access to information to the ease of connecting with others. However, the study reveals the complexities of this connectivity, particularly among teens.While smartphones are celebrated for facilitating hobbies and interests, with 69 percent of teens acknowledging these benefits, they also bring to light the challenges in developing social skills and maintaining meaningful relationships.
“More teens believe smartphones make it easier, rather than harder, to be creative, pursue hobbies, and do well in school,” the report found. “Close to half [45 percent] say these devices have made it easier for youth to do well in school.”
The views become more mixed in relation to developing healthy relationships and friendships, though.
“Roughly four in ten teens say smartphones make it easier for teens to develop healthy friendships, while [31 percent] each say they make it harder or neither easier nor harder,” the report claims. “But they think smartphones have a more negative than positive impact on their social skills. A larger percentage of teens say smartphones make learning good social skills harder [42 percent] rather than easier [30 percent]. About three in ten say it neither helps nor hurts.”
The majority of the teens think the benefits of smartphones outweigh the harms for people their age, with about 30 percent saying the opposite.
Another 44 percent of teens reported feeling anxious without their phones, signaling the double-edged sword of constant connectivity.
Teens encounter a range of emotions when they don’t have their phones, the survey discovered.
Gender Disparities in Digital Usage
The study also sheds light on gender disparities in digital usage and concerns about screen time.Teen girls report more significant struggles with managing their screen time compared to boys, indicating a gendered dimension to the challenges of digital engagement. These findings prompt a closer examination of how digital habits are influenced by gender and the implications for mental health and well-being.
Despite recognizing the pitfalls of excessive screen time, both teens and their parents exhibit a willingness to address this issue.
A considerable number of teens have attempted to reduce their digital consumption, particularly on social media, reflecting a growing consciousness about the need for digital balance.
Similarly, parents are actively seeking ways to manage their screen time, underscoring a collective effort toward healthier digital habits.