Valentine’s Day Isn’t Just for Lovers

Valentine’s Day Isn’t Just for Lovers
A couple kiss as the sun sets in St. James's Park on Valentine's Day on Feb. 14, 2019. Tolga Akmen/AFP via Getty Images
Nicole Russell
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“Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives.” – C. S. Lewis, “The Four Loves”
Despite being a mother and a romantic, I’ve always hated Mother’s Day and Valentine’s Day for the same reason: They seem like Hallmark holidays—saccharine without substance—and they put pressure on boys and men alike to woo with gifts and notes, all for the sake of a day on a calendar.
As my four young kids approach this holiday, earnestly wondering why—and how—to pass out “valentines” to classmates who are more friends than lovers (of course), I’ve thought about friendships more than ever.

It’s Okay to Celebrate V-day With Love

Love, romance, and maybe even agape (sacrificial) love are what first come to mind for many people around Valentine’s Day. It was estimated last year that Americans would spend $20.7 billion to celebrate the day. I don’t blame these people who want to celebrate love with someone they love.
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