Arizona man Randy Tenney lost his life to cancer in December 2019 after 45 years of marriage to his beloved wife, Debbie. Randy had gifted his wife with flowers and a poem every single Valentine’s Day throughout their marriage; despite Randy’s absence, Valentine’s Day 2020 was no different.
On Feb. 14, Debbie was presented with a stunning, unexpected gift “from Heaven.”
“Roses are red, violets are blue, yelling from Heaven that I will always love you. With love from your eternal Valentine, R.T.”
The moving poem was affixed to a beautiful bouquet of yellow roses topped by a single red rose.
“It was Dad’s idea, Mom,” says one of Debbie’s daughters, standing behind the camera. “It was all Dad. He didn’t want you to be without a valentine.”
Randy and Debbie went on to have 8 children, 33 grandchildren, and 6 great-grandchildren together. “They were high school sweethearts,” the couple’s son, Jordan, explained. “He doted on her every day.”
The Tenneys lived in Show Low, Arizona. Randy, formerly a property manager and little league coach, had arranged his wife’s Valentine’s Day surprise months in advance by enlisting the help of a family friend who owned a flower shop.
“My husband sent me flowers as well the first year after he died,” one person shared. “It helps with the grieving process so much, and the loneliness.”
“So amazing as when he was facing dealing with his cancer, he made her a priority and wanted to make sure [she] was still taken care of,” wrote another. “That is a great unselfish man with a heart full of love for his wife.”
Five years before Randy passed away, another doting husband, this time from Casper in Wyoming, had the very same idea. Jim Golay also lost his life to brain cancer but made provisions for his wife, Shelly, before he passed to make sure she would not be alone on Valentine’s Day.
Unlike Randy, Jim had kept his Valentine’s Day surprise a secret even from his children. When the flowers arrived on Feb. 12, 2015, Jim’s son called the flower shop to confirm that Jim was indeed the sender.
“I just felt his love surround me and it lifted me up,” she continued. “His act of love was true love in its purest form.”