Actor and filmmaker Ed Burns says a simple agreement he made with his wife, supermodel Christy Turlington, early in their marriage has played a significant role in keeping their relationship strong for more than two decades.
“We had a two-week rule where neither one of us was allowed to be gone for more than two weeks at a time. And a lot of times, we had to look at our calendars and sometimes say no to a particular job that would require travel that might have us gone for a longer period of time.”
Burns, 57, said the agreement sometimes required professional sacrifices but helped preserve stability at home during the busiest years of their marriage. While the couple’s situation has evolved as their children have grown, the guiding principle remains.
“Now that we’re empty nesters, we don’t have to stick to that in the same way,” he said. “But we still try not to do jobs that will have us away from one another for too long.”
The couple married in 2003 and share two children: daughter Grace McKenna, now 22, and son Finn, 19.
“I think the big thing for us is, given both of our careers, we absolutely never traveled at the same time,” Burns said at the time. “So, we’d look at, if a job came up for me or a job came up for her, we would have to make a decision. If they happened at the same time, someone would have to pass, so that somebody was always home.”
“That was the bigger rule that we had,” he added. “We agreed on that early on, and fortunately, it really worked out for us, and I think more importantly, worked out for the kids.”
Burns emerged as a prominent figure in American independent cinema in the 1990s, gaining widespread recognition with “The Brothers McMullen,” a low-budget film he wrote, directed, and starred in that went on to achieve both critical and commercial success. The sequel, “The Family McMullen,” was released this October.







