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Why Learning to Be Silent Can Change Your Life

The rising value of speaking less and regaining quiet.
Why Learning to Be Silent Can Change Your Life
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We are surrounded by constant noise. Our society and culture often seek to fill every moment with conversation, information, entertainment, and more. Even our thoughts can be loud. Quiet is pushed aside—shoved and manipulated—sometimes out of personal avoidance, and other times through public control. This space can only be managed internally, especially with external forces working against it.

Silence may seem unreachable in a persistent world, but its utilization offers a wealth of resources. Its presence can be deceptive, yet its nature is whole in essence and utility—not only for our health and well-being, but also in how we show up in the world.

Silence offers luxury and resourcefulness—if we are brave enough to approach and channel it. Rare in today’s world, its value lies in where we go not to determine an answer, but to receive one.

At a time when nearly everything is instantly available, reflection and awareness through silence serve as responses and tools that aid in what we cannot regulate externally. Often misunderstood, silence is wrongly perceived as radical—whether stepping back, refraining from speaking, or exercising patience in response. By avoiding silence, we are robbed of its benefits.

Historical philosophers such as Marcus Aurelius and Socrates established the foundation for recognizing silence as a form of power. While the most noticeable messages today belong to loud voices, headlines, digital noise, and social media, introspection through silence enables us to clear away the external and reach internal clarity—inviting personal mastery.

Internal Silence

We often overlook silence as a form of active communication, but it can be both tactical and therapeutic. Socrates’s teachings go beyond the absence of speech, promoting silence as a state of being. It is our personal responsibility to shut out the noise—because if we don’t, the mind becomes filled by default.

Amid distractions, conflicts, or even creativity, authenticity is born when we meet those experiences with silence. Confronting difficult emotions, disagreements, or negative thoughts through stillness allows us to manage impulse and maintain a grace that steadies both mind and soul. Silence is not avoidance; it is the space where the seeker discovers the appropriate response—even if that response is none at all.

Lisabeth Lange
Lisabeth Lange
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Author of the award-winning novel, “The Luminescence Manual,” Lisabeth Lange has worked with travel guru Peter Greenberg and as a casting director for various television shows including “The Biggest Loser” and “Extreme Home Makeover.” As a producer and proofreader, she has a myriad of media experience.
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