A woman’s letter and contract to her 13-year-old son has periodically surfaced, going viral over the years.
The woman, who went by the pen name Estella Havisham, said that her son disregarded her rules, saying he lied about his homework.
The woman said her son crumbled the note and got angry when seeing it. The boy, who was not named, then apologized to her and asked to earn back items that she had taken from his room.
Her note came after some people criticized her parenting style, asking why she “shamed” him online. Some complained that she was going to force her teenage son out on the street, while others said she was posting the note for attention.
The mother said she posted the note as an accident and was meant for her family.
Elaborating further, she said that “he will be a legal adult in roughly 4 years. I cannot send this child into college or the workforce with the attitude of ‘I'll get to it when I get to it.”
She also addressed the nature of the note.
“And people, let’s get serious! I am not going to put my 13 year old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything. I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have,” the mother said.
The bill was written to make a point that nothing in life comes for free, she said, adding that someone has to lose.
To clarify, she offered more expectations of her son, including doing his “best” in school, completing chores, being respectful, keeping good hygiene, making eye contact, and using proper manners.
“And, you know what... this hasn’t hurt our relationship. He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times,” she continued.
Over the years, her Facebook posts have garnered thousands of “likes” and shares. A number of people have also praised her parenting style.
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