Homeless Man Ran an Ad for Thanksgiving Adoption and Got More Than What He Bargained For

Homeless Man Ran an Ad for Thanksgiving Adoption and Got More Than What He Bargained For
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Epoch Inspired Staff
11/29/2019
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11/29/2019

Thanksgiving is a special time where people gather together with family to enjoy a festive dinner. But for one homeless man, this used to be one of the hardest days of the year, until he published an advertisement to ask for a Thanksgiving adoption.

Neal Shytles, of Norfolk, Virginia, had never thought Thanksgiving Day would end up being one of the loneliest days for him until he lost his job as a taxi driver and ended up at the Union Mission Ministries men’s shelter.

Having stayed there for over a year, he was in need of a “family atmosphere,” and decided to create a personal advertisement titled “Wanted: A family to share Thanksgiving with.”

“I didn’t have a whole lot of Facebook friends and I was trying to think of places where people would see it,” Shytles told ABC News in November 2014. “So I posted the ad on a few Facebook pages of news sites in the area.”
Shytles had graduated from Princess Anne High School in 1980 but had no family living nearby. He said, “It hurts me to be alone, no family or nobody around.”

Soon, NewsChannel 3 shared his story and people from across the country started responding to his simple request.

The first person who responded was a 7th-grade English teacher named Ashley McLemore. “In the teaser was the quote that said ‘I’m lonely 365 days a year,’ which absolutely broke my heart,” McLemore said. “I called my husband and asked if he would mind having him with us for Thanksgiving.”

McLemore and her husband, Cory, are from a military family and understand what it feels like to be alone on holidays.

“Because we’ve been military and I identify with having to be away from your family and not having family around for the holidays so it kind of struck a chord with me,” McLemore told NewsChannel 3.

On that Thanksgiving morning, the couple picked Shytles up from the shelter and took him to their home to spend the day and enjoy a Thanksgiving meal together.

Shytles even received a surprise from Cory’s co-workers.

“They have actually donated $400 directly to you. And this was done in two days. They did everything they could to help you out,” Cory told him.

“You didn’t have to do this. I just wanted a meal,” said an emotional Shytles.

“That’s all I ever wanted in life,” Shytles told ABC News. “I didn’t ask for money. For me, it was never about the riches. I want something to take away the loneliness, where I can love people and they love me back.”

A little bit of warmth can make all the difference. After this, the story of Shytles went viral, touching millions of people’s hearts worldwide. His interview helped people look at the homeless from an all-new perspective. He then began an organization called LAGG, (Look at God Go), which is currently helping other homeless people. According to their website, the vision of the organization is to “strive to show God’s love and provide them ways to get off the street and free from addictions that some may be dealing with.”
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