Seven years after the sudden loss of his 19-month-old daughter, Olympic gold medalist Bode Miller continues to channel his grief into advocacy, aiming to raise awareness about childhood drowning and pool safety.
“I don’t think it really necessarily heals, or it doesn’t really go away. It just normalizes to a degree,” Miller said. “It definitely is important, and it’s a way of honoring her as well—her sort of loss or sacrifices to try to prevent it from happening more.”
“After losing a child, there are things I wish I’d known before,” he told the outlet. “Partly to honor [Emmy] … it makes me feel compelled to share it with people so that they have the information.”
Miller expressed frustration that pool safety had never been addressed in pediatrician visits prior to the incident. “The fact that the conversation had never come up … was really frustrating after the tragedy,” he said. He now encourages parents to build a “culture of respect and awareness” around water while still allowing children to enjoy it.
“2018 has been a year full of overwhelming sadness and overwhelming joy. We have spent half of the year mourning and attempting to heal the loss of our angel which feels like an impossible battle all while celebrating the birth of our son,” she continued. “Seeking normalcy for our children has been our driving force forward.”