I’m excited and honored to begin blogging for Epoch Times with this very post! I started my company, Women’s Advancement Compact (WAC) to guide professional NYC women toward living richer lives, and to help our community members prepare for the uncertainties in life that could hinder their success and happiness.
Recently, in my keynote address to a group of 100+ young women about the road ahead, I had isolated 13 essential life lessons that, if wholly understood and adhered to, would make all the difference. Allow me to now offer you that very abridgment of the tools I’ve used in my winding career. Keep in mind that as I continue to blog under the category of “life lessons”, we’ll explore these points more deeply. Additionally, I’ll be reporting in to you upon the joys of non-business life, including the subjects of food, wine and leisure.
Some of the following life lessons are kept brief, as their deeper meanings are wrapped neatly into their eloquence. Adopt these values and outlooks, and the likelihood of a prosperous and obstacle-free career will increase exponentially, as will your pride and sense of accomplishment. Use the links to explore these topics further from my perspective:
•Surround yourself with people you aspire to be like.
•Competition is for girls; collaboration is for women. Work together, always help and support each other, and never be a bully.
•Your personal relationships should be first and foremost. Treat them as treasures, and nurture them through the lens of love.
•Physical exercise, while crucial for your health, is also essential to a successful professional life. When you’re not fit, you are not operating on all cylinders.
•”You are what you eat” is not to be dismissed as a catchy cliché. Eating healthfully is a must. Adjust your diet to be balanced, chemical/hormone/antibiotic-free, and GMO-free. And remember, organic junk food is junk food nonetheless.
•Time is our most precious commodity. Don’t take it for granted.
•Your network is the key to your success. Begin building your network now, and continue to cultivate it throughout your career.
•Learn to be a good listener and how to ask excellent, relevant questions.
•Have the mindset that there will be an emergency interruption one hour after you begin your day’s work. This will prompt you to take care of the most vital work FIRST.
•You cannot control the way other people stereotype women. This will not change, as they are trapped by their insecurities. Instead, focus your energy on being consistent and fair. It will position you to command the respect of those who are capable of giving it. A woman I deeply respect describes herself as a “Compassionate Tough Cookie“. That’s what I aspire to be.
•Don’t diminish your own power or social standing by losing your grasp on the controllables. Always make an effort to dress appropriately, show good posture and stride, and speak like the adult that you are. Instead of committing to that tattoo or audacious piercing, think long-term.
•Baby steps, not giant leaps, are what it takes to win the race. We can ALL live richer lives if we acquire the tools, practice the moves, and are kind to ourselves when we fall down.
What advice would you add to this list?