Veterans and Quitting: The Paradox of Letting Go to Move Forward

It’s been said ‘winners never quit.’ But is that always true?
Veterans and Quitting: The Paradox of Letting Go to Move Forward
A recruit advances towards the next objective in a simulated battle during "the Crucible," on Marine Corps Recruit Depot Parris Island, South Carolina, on Aug. 22, 2019. The Crucible tests recruits mentally and physically, and is the final step in earning the title United States Marine. Lance Cpl. Ryan Hageali, U.S. Marine Corps
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The notion of quitting has been painted with broad strokes of negativity. The adage rings loud: “Quitters never win, and winners never quit.” Yet, the etymological roots of the word “quit” hint at a different perspective—one of liberation and peace. Derived from the Medieval Latin “quietus,” it originally meant to be free from burdens like war or debt. Today, it’s time to weave a more nuanced understanding of what it means to quit, recognizing that sometimes, letting go can set us free.

The dichotomy of quitting as either wholly good or bad is a misstep. It overlooks the complexities of human experience. Consider the soldier enduring the rigors of ranger school. The immediate discomfort and challenges are undeniable, yet the long-term regret of quitting could outweigh the temporary relief. Conversely, stepping away from a destructive relationship, while acutely painful, might pave the way for a healthier, happier life. The scale of discomfort against the potential for positive outcomes is a delicate balance.

JC Glick served in the Army as an infantry officer for 20 years, primarily in special operations and special missions units. He saw more than 11 combat tours. Since retiring from the military, JC has brought his innovative and unconventional thoughts on education, leadership, and resiliency into the private sector, consulting with Fortune 500 companies, the NFL, and professional sports teams, including the Denver Broncos and the Carolina Panthers. He is the author of two books: "A Light in the Darkness: Leadership Development for the Unknown" (with Sarah Ngu), and "Meditations of an Army Ranger: A Warrior Philosophy for Everyone," (with Dr. Alice Atalanta) both published by Hatteras Press.
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